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REASONS WHY GIRL STARTS IGNORING HER LOVE

♥ Reasons why girl starts ignoring her Love..

1. You said, You are Busy.. :'(

2. You got bored by her talks..
:'(

3. You ask her to wait, but u forgot she is waiting.. :'(

4. You compare her with
someone else.. :'(

5. You forgot replying her text.. :'(

6. You replies act like killing conversation.. :'(

7. You Lied to her.. :'(

8. You give importance to
something else more than
her.. :'(

A HEART BREAKING SHORT STORY

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom. This was the scene ten years ago.


The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school. Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to beaffected by unpredictable changes.

Dew came into my life. It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her. Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls’ eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn’t help doing so. I moved Dew’s hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, O.K.? I’ve got something to do in the company.

Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me. However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt. Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew’s body. This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn’t imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious. When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more. When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand.  I’ve got something to tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic calmly.

She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I’m serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.  But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew. With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be
firmer and clearer. Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the month’s time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn’t want him to see our marriage was broken.

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.
 
I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage romantically.
I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel uncomfortable.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms.
His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don’t tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I drove to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face. 

On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vague.
On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn’t tell Dew about this.
I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger.
I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart.
 
Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head. Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. He said. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.
On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old. I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn’t notice that our life lacked intimacy. I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won’t divorce. I’m serious.

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of life, not because we didn’t love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.
When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until we are old”.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in bed – DEAD. She had been fighting Cancer for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce. At least, in the eyes of our son… I’m a loving husband…

“The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So, find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.”

~ DO HAVE A REAL HAPPY MARRIAGE LIFE ~ 

HEART TOUCHING STORY

heart touching story

From the very beginning, girl's family objected strongly on her
dating this guy, saying that it has got to do with family
background, & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she
were to be with him. 

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though 
the girl loved the guy deeply, she always asked him: "How deep is your 
love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused 
the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl 
often vents her anger on him. As for him, he only endured it in 
silence. 

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to 
further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the 
girl: 

"I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. 
If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As 
for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry 
me?" The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally 
gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they 
got engaged. The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy 
was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through 
emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving 
up. 

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked 
down by a car that lost control. when she woke up, she saw her parents 
beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her 
mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all 
that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. she had lost her 
voice.... 

The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose 
her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing 
coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides 
silence cry,..it's still just silence cry that accompanied her. 

Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the 
ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. 

She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to 
him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any 
longer. 

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent 
millions & millions of reply, countless of phonecalls,. . all the 
girl could do, besides crying, is still crying.... The parents decided 
to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be 
happy. 

With a new environment, the girl learns sign language & started a 
new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One 
day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not 
to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore 
news of him. 

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing a 
invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When 
she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead. When she was 
about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing 
in front of her. 

He used sign language to tell her "I've spent a year to learn sign 
language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. 
Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You." With that, he 
slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled. 


Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know 
how to Give. Treat every moment as is it's the last day, then you'll 
know how to treasure. 

Treasure what you have right now, or else you will 
regret one day... 

HOW TO STOP MISSING SOMEONE

It is natural for humans to feel sad when they get separated from their loved ones. They long for the presence of the people dear to their heart. Missing someone could even lead to depression in some cases. This happens when a person allows loneliness to consume his/ her life. It begins to consume a person’s life when the usual routines are already affected.

There’s nothing wrong with missing someone but it becomes unhealthy when it starts to destroy your life. If this is the case, you’d better do something to stop what you feel. Learn some tips on how to stop missing someone.

• Make yourself busy. If your mind is occupied with other things, it won’t have any chance to wander. If you are not doing anything, there’s a greater chance that you will keep on thinking of that particular person. If you really want to get rid of thoughts about him/ her, focus your attention to other things.
• Distract yourself. Try engaging in interesting activities with friends or family members. You can also try new hobbies. You will surely enjoy plus your loneliness will be lessened.
• Motivate yourself. Just think that the person is just away for an important matter and that you will see each other soon.
• Pay the person a visit. If you can afford to be where the person is, why don’t you surprise him/ her with a visit? This will surely stop you from missing him/ her.
• Keep in touch. Call the person and chat with him. Talk about how life has been since he/ she went away. You can also see the person online via instant messengers.

Conquer the physical distance that challenges your relationship with the abovementioned tips. Don’t let distance ruin your relationship.

FINDING THE RIGHT ONE..

♥ ~"I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. If he has them, we’d be compatible and happy. Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy relationship isn’t so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive. It’s about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And then it’s about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good person with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A good relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good together. ~ ♥

12 Funniest Texts for a Cake

No matter what, always apologize with a cake.
I think it will take more than a cake to apologize
You should never force someone to make you a cake.
Baking makes me tired.
 This is one cake I hope I never get.
  Oh, gosh.
  “Hey, at least I can bake.”
    An honest mistake deserves a cake!